Episode 46

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5th Mar 2025

Become an Authority in Coaching: Go From People-Pleaser to Power Coach with Chris Marr

Mastering Authority in Coaching with Chris Marr

Summary

Hosts Angie and John engage in a deep dive with Chris Marr, author of 'The Authoritative Coach,' discussing what it means to be an authoritative coach.

Chris elucidates the distinction between authority and authoritarianism, emphasizing respect, expertise, and genuine client relationships.

The conversation spans challenges coaches face, the balance between coaching and consulting, and the importance of radical candour in client relationships.

Chris also shares his insights on the evolution of a coach's role, the significance of inner work, and tools for effectively managing coaching sessions. The episode is packed with practical advice for both novice and seasoned coaches to master the craft and maintain client rapport.

Find out more about Chris here: https://theauthoritativecoach.com/

and take the test to see how much of a people pleaser you are: https://score.theauthoritativecoach.com/

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Initial Question

00:23 Introducing the Expert Guest

01:53 Defining an Authoritative Coach

03:35 Personal Challenges and Lessons Learned

05:55 The Importance of Self-Respect in Coaching

07:54 Coaching Techniques and Client Relationships

21:51 Balancing Coaching and Consulting

24:30 Familiarity Breeds Contempt

24:52 Switching to Consulting Mode

25:22 Evolving Perspectives on Coaching

26:07 Contradictions in Communication

26:39 Pre-Framing Coaching Sessions

27:06 Determining the Value of Coaching

28:20 The Vanguard Principle

31:36 Raising the Stakes

33:28 Radical Candor in Coaching

41:53 Signs of Coaching Success

44:49 Conclusion and Contact Information

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About the Podcast

The Coaching Clinic
The HEart of Coaching from learning to client sessions, starting to scaling, we've got you covered.
She's direct and he's diplomatic but Angie Besignano and John Ball are both successful coaches with years of coaching experience and very different delivery styles.
Each episode will tackle a different coaching problem from both styles of coaching, with occasional guest coaches and audience interaction. We're going to have some fun digging into your biggest coaching challenges and helping you become an even better coach.

About your hosts

John Ball

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From former flight attendant to international coach and trainer, on to podcaster and persuasion expert, it's been quite the journey for John.
John has been a lead coach and trainer with the Harv Eker organisation for over 10 years and is currently focused on helping his clients develop their personal presentation skills for media and speaking stages through his coaching business brand Present Influence.
He's the author of the upcoming book Podfluence: How To Build Professional Authority With Podcasts, and host of the Podfluence podcast with over 150 episodes and over 15,000 downloads John is now focused on helping business coaches and speakers to build a following and grow your lead flow and charisma.
You can now also listen to John on The Coaching Clinic podcast with his good friend and colleague Angie Besignano where they are helping coaches create sustainable and successful businesses, and the Try To Stand Up podcast where John is on a personal and professional mission to become funnier on the stage and in his communication.

Angie Besignano

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With early beginnings as an entry-level manager in the sales industry, Angie has spent more than 3 decades building her knowledge and expertise to create her master coaching and speaking brand, AngieSpeaks. After climbing the professional ladder, she started her own company and decided to focus her practice on High Performance Coaching. In doing so, she challenges individuals to elevate and grow, no matter what level they are at currently in their personal or professional lives.
Angie has created a strong following through her “tough” but “pragmatic” approach and challenges her clients to find the space that is holding them back the most. In doing so, their outcomes not only compound, but take root, so that results can be permanent. The tools she provides work in the “real” world and show up in their first interaction.
Angie has an unwavering passion toward the journey that fosters a true transformation for those that work with her. She delivers her content and speaking engagements with an authentic enthusiasm and curiosity that creates trust and rapport, allowing for a heightened experience.